Giving up!!! Is No defeat...
26/06/2019
“You must know that you can do this you are strong you will make it”
Hey you!! Strong woman you must have read these lines somewhere, and in your down time you might have keep reminding yourself that you are too strong to give up. Giving up is a sign of weakness. If you give up you just must really not care. "Never Give Up" is a phrase you also use as a piece of advice to your friends as well.
Well this is a good advice and helpful in most of the cases but there are some exceptions where you must give up…So I am here to tell you that it is ok give up or walk away from something that simply isn't making you happy anymore.
What defines you being happy or being strong? This question is one we should ask ourselves because most of the times we are frightened by the answer or to be more precise, by the lack of it.
Do you know what actively impacts and shapes you? Are you aware of social and circumstantial influence in you? The dreaded 'autopilot' mode get stuck in more often we would like to admit leads us to become stunted in every aspect of our lives and getting out of it is everything but easy. And most of all we are printed down by relationships that no longer serve us good. however giving up on a loved one is always an experience that shakes us to our core and you can be sure that your mind will do anything to dissuade you form going through with it.And this is making you to live a half-life with half love, half respect half peace that you struggle to have with someone in order to be whole on their own. No one deserves to live a half-lifethere has to be a solution and the only solution for this situation is giving up on the person or situation that you are continuously trying to improve, and accept you are not powerful enough to change someone's life or circumstances as whole, anyway this is not your job the only thing you are responsible for is improving your own life not others.
We all know this but still we end up doing the same somehow it is a sign of being too fussy that we mistook of being strong. We like to consider ourselves strong so we think giving up would make us weak we polish our own ego with the words we want to hear about ourselves. Have you ever given a thought why you are too occupied with something that is not even giving you happiness? is it love ? I am so sorry but the answer is NO Sometimes when you reach at a point where you too satisfied with yourself you find a task in someone else and start trying to prove yourself that you are a strong woman.
You start thinking like - If you are strong, you should hang in there and give it your best shot. but actually this act is not a sign of strength but weakness. Like holding on to a rotten branch over a precipice is better and safer than reaching for a healthy one and pulling yourself back to safety.Just like holding on to a rotten branch doesn't show courage or wits, holding on to a relationship that endangers all you are and have the potential to be doesn't show character or the strength of love you have for that particular person.
When put in such a situation, what would you choose-the rotten branch or the healthy one? I think now you know the answer.
Never give up attitude might help you in your career but not in relationships, so remember giving up not always bad. Sometimes it's needed. Give up on the people who make you question your worth. Give up on people who make you feel like it's always your fault. Give up on people who think you are weak just because you are continuously making efforts to be with them. Give up on people who give you a reason not to trust them. Give up on the peoplewho just don't care. Whenyou finally give up you may find solution of all your problems you have been facing for long. Choose to give up.
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